Superhuman Superwomen

have you ever had anyone telling you that its 'easy' being a full time housewife? i heard that comment today...and i strongly feels that its a very bias comment. it definitely NOT easy being a full time housewife especially if you have kids! i sure mothers around the world would agree with me (or am i the only one who feels this way?)*pondering* on this one. i myself is a mother of 2 and a full time housewife. i can tell you this i had more stress now than i was a couple of years back when i was still working. its all because you have to manage the kids; bath them, feed them, play with them, make sure that they have their naps etc...and if you are 'fortunate' like me having 2 hyper active kids you won't have the time to catch your breath. my daughter; she just turned 1...loves 'house keeping' she'll take out all contents in the drawers make a mess of it, she'll go to the kitchen drawers and 'rearrange' the tupperwares and some dried / canned food, she'll climb the stairs...and my work everyday is to keep a special eye on her. i know what you're thinking i don't have that safety bar for the staircase and the kitchen entrance. my brother in law gave one to us once but the size is too small we couldn't use it and it was supposed to be a standard size, the product was from ikea. we did also bought the drawer lock for child safety but unfortunately again the size didn't fit our drawer it was too small or probably the design didn't suit our furniture..who knows...

Someone in Malaysia should import some quality baby /child safety stuff from The States or The UK or Japan even. we don't get much 'cool gadgets here. and my son is also hyper active, whenever i had my eyes off him he'll try something new and this would usually include water, food and whatever we had laying around and make the mother of all mess in the house. i think i'm so stressed that my hair is actually falling off!my hair is getting thinner everyday *sob sob* and on top of that i still have to keep my house clean or at least in a manageable state *sigh* and then i have to cook to feed them my children are picky eaters as do my husband. with all that...i still have to wake up in the middle of the night should my children had night terrors and later wants some milk. with all these we don't even have any day off. honestly unlike men they go to work (yes they probably feels tired with all the brain activities the driving etc..) but they still have the weekend off where they can RELAX even when i tried asking for help he'd say please not now i'm tired i need some rest... and i was like what? tired? how about me? am i a SUPERHUMAN or SUPERWOMEN to you? i'm wearing 2 hats now one as a mother and one as a wife and i can NEVER take those hats off. i know most of you are in the same shoes as i am...we can never take those hats off can we?

i'm not asking for the world but carefull when making any foolish statements. we are only human...we feel tired too, stress out too and this full time JOB is never one bit easy! but we try our best and give our best so please understand when we sometimes became moody, its a 24hours and a 8days aweek job...